High school senior with long, dark hair wearing a blue sweater and jeans in front of the water on a cement platform.

What to Wear for Your Professional Photoshoot: The Stress-Free Guide

I recently had the experience of being in front of the camera for my own branding shoot. It was fun, a little outside my comfort zone, and honestly such a good reminder of what my clients experience during a session.

I brought my daughters along for styling advice (and to jump into a few photos themselves), which made the whole experience even more special. More than anything, it reminded me how much thought goes into planning – especially when it comes to the big question: What should I wear?

After years of photographing families, seniors, athletes, and brands…these tips resonated with me after my own personal experience in front of the camera:

Wear what feels like YOU

If you feel comfortable, you’ll naturally feel more confident in front of the camera. The goal isn’t to wear something perfect or on trend – it’s to wear something that feels natural, flattering, and true to your personality.  Confidence shines through the most in photos.

Keep colors timeless

Neutral colors photograph beautifully and give you flexibility when using images for years to come. I always love adding small pops of color, texture, or personality throughout outfits, while avoiding anything overly trendy or distracting that may feel dated quickly.

Try everything on ahead of time

And I mean the entire outfit — shoes, jewelry, belts, layers, bras, socks… all of it.  And for all of those who wear a bra…try it on, look in the mirror, look for straps, make sure it’s flattering.  With all accessories, especially the bra, an incorrect fit shows up even more in photos.

Accessories can completely change the look and feel of an outfit, and trying everything on beforehand (meaning a week before – not 15 minutes before) helps you feel relaxed and efficient, and confident, especially if we’re planning multiple outfit changes.  You don’t want to be second-guessing your outfit choice in the middle of a session.

Family Sessions

Start with one person’s outfit and build around it. Usually, it’s the person who cares most about what they’re wearing – whether that’s mom, dad, a teenager, or even a very opinionated toddler.

I love cohesive color palettes with variation: neutrals, soft textures, and complementary tones without everyone matching exactly.

Seniors

This is your season – have fun with it.

Yes, classic outfits photograph beautifully, but I also want seniors to bring pieces that feel personal to them: cowboy boots, a favorite sweatshirt, a varsity jacket, a band tee they’ve worn nonstop for four years.

The best senior sessions reflect personality just as much as they do this milestone.  And I will reiterate – comfort is key.  Have comfy shoes, have at least one outfit that you can sit in, and try EVERYTHING on before your session…not just 10 minutes before; try things on a week before.  Make sure your favorite shirt isn’t wrinkled at the bottom of your closet : )

Branding Sessions

Think intentionally about how you’ll use the images:

  • Website
  • Social media
  • Newsletters
  • Marketing materials

I always recommend creating a Pinterest board ahead of time so we can align your outfits, props, and overall feel with your brand. Bring pieces that represent your work and personality so your images feel cohesive and versatile. The planning piece on this is the most important – take some time to think about what you’re going to do with these photos?  Let’s make the most out of our time together and get photos for your website, an advertising campaign, social media (you’ll want lots of variety!).

Don’t Forget About Shoes

Shoes (and socks) matter more than people think – both visually and practically.

We’ll likely be moving throughout the session, so make sure you can comfortably walk in them. Also think about location:

  • Barefoot often works best at the beach
  • Heels and grassy fields usually don’t mix
  • Urban sessions may involve more walking than expected

You can always bring additional shoe options and change once we reach a location.

Multiple Outfits?

Keep everything organized and easy to access. I recommend bringing outfits on hangers in a garment bag, along with a blanket or easy-changing layer if we’ll be outdoors or moving between locations.

At the end of the day, pick clothes that represent YOU and where you are at this stage in life.  Be comfortable and pick outfits that will make you feel confident!

Two high school girls in white dresses and brown cowboy boots. They’re sitting back to back on driftwood in front of the water on Bainbridge Island.

Why You Should Book Your Senior Photos with a Best Friend

Why I Love Buddy Sessions for High School Senior Photos

One thing I’ve noticed over the years of photographing high school senior photos is that even the most outgoing seniors need a little time to warm up. It’s completely normal! Most people aren’t used to having a camera pointed at them for an entire session.

That’s exactly why I created my Buddy Session.

Instead of one hour, you and a friend share 90 minutes together. While I’m photographing one of you, the other gets to be your biggest fan – making you laugh, cheering you on, and helping those real smiles come out. Or maybe it’s your best friend who knows EXACTLY what to say to make you crack up. Those jokes often lead to the most natural photos.

It’s also a great way to make the most of your session. While I’m photographing your friend, you can change outfits, touch up your hair, grab a drink of water, or just take a little break before it’s your turn again.

And one of the best parts? You get photos together.

Our friends are such a huge part of the high school experience. Whether you’ve known each other since kindergarten, met through sports, dance, theater, or just clicked freshman year, these are friendships worth remembering.

Buddy Sessions are also a great fit for seniors who don’t love being the center of attention. Sharing the experience takes some of the pressure off and makes the whole session feel more relaxed and a lot more fun.

Who Should Book a Buddy Session?

Buddy Sessions are perfect for:

  • Best friends
  • Teammates
  • Cousins
  • Twins
  • Dance partners
  • Theater friends
  • Band members
  • Anyone who wants a more relaxed senior photo experience

At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong way to do high school senior photos. Some seniors love having the spotlight to themselves, while others have more fun sharing the experience with someone they know.

The most important thing is that your photos feel like you.

High schooler sitting on wood in front of an open field. He’s wearing a gray hooded sweatshirt and blue jeans.

Best locations in Seattle and Bainbridge Island for Family and Senior Photos

Where Should I Get My Photos Taken?

I get this question all the time — and honestly, one of the best parts about living in the PNW is that we have so many beautiful options.

The truth is, I can make a session work almost anywhere. I’ve taken photos in parking lots, driveways, backyards, beaches, fields, and some of my favorite spots around Bainbridge, Bellevue, Kitsap County, Whidbey Island, and Seattle.

The more important question is what time of day…because let’s be honest, the golden hour glow is not just beautiful, it’s the most flattering.  So think about the time of year you are wanting your photos, and then look up when the sunset is that time of year.  And then back it up an hour…because that’s when we’ll want to start your session.

Once you have that in your mind…

The first question I usually ask is:
What kind of feel are you wanting for your photos?

And right behind that:
Is convenience or location more important?

If gathering everyone together and driving across town sounds stressful, let’s stay close to home. Sometimes the best sessions happen in places that already feel familiar and comfortable.

If you want more of an urban feel with a variety of backdrops, we can head into the city or choose a neighborhood location with lots of texture and movement.

Some of my favorite Seattle locations include:

  • UW Center for Urban Horticulture
  • The Arboretum
  • Parsons Garden & Boulevard on Queen Anne
  • Sculpture Park and Paccar Pavilion
  • Gas Works Park

Personally, I’m always drawn to beach settings — water, grasses, driftwood, bridges, and soft evening light. If that’s the feel you’re wanting, Bainbridge is hard to beat.

Some favorite Bainbridge locations:

  • Fay Bainbridge
  • Blakely Harbor
  • Lytle Beach
  • Point No Point

And in Seattle:

  • Discovery Park
  • Golden Gardens

At the end of the day, the best location is the one that feels most like you — your senior, your family, your season, or your brand.

Start there, and then we can narrow things down based on the season, lighting, and what kind of experience you want your session to feel like.

Ice Cream!

Last March, our kids’ elementary school had its annual auction.  In the past, I have taken photos of each of the 500+ students.  We line the halls with 8 x 10 images of each child and the prints are available for parents to purchase with all proceeds going to the school.  It’s a BIG task – it takes a lot of time, but it’s also very rewarding interacting with each child and seeing each parent’s reaction to his or her child’s photo.  This last year, I didn’t take on this task, so I felt the least I could do was donate a family session (and a good friend twisted my arm to donate one of my sessions!).  I was thrilled to find out the Helman’s won my package because their family is adorable.

This session was so fun for me because I love “lifestyle photography” or capturing families doing what they do on an every day basis.  I always encourage parent’s with little kids to have some sort of encouragement, reward…bribery to keep the kids motivated and to make the session fun.  We ended our session with a trip to Molly Moons.  Usually when my sessions are officially “over” the real, natural smiles come out.  Luckily – we had some great candid photos when we were doing our session, but I loved being a part of the ice cream fun!

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Back to it.

These past few years have flashed  by.  They have been filled with so much joy, but also a lot of sadness.  My baby will be FOUR this fall and with each child, time passes by more quickly.  As the third child of three, I expected I would have been much more diligent about documenting my baby’s life (also the third of three), but instead I have belatedly granted my mom forgiveness for never finishing MY baby book oh so many years ago.  I now get it.  Life is busy and priorities shift as “survival” sets in.

I don’t expect that life will get less busy.  In fact, I anticipate the opposite.  But it’s a different busy with kids who are more self-sufficient, independent, and also who are involved in a lot more activities and have different needs. I am trying to shift my expectations accordingly.  With this shift, I understand I can’t do it all.  I have focused my energy in places where I am needed most and where I WANT to be, not where I feel I SHOULD be.

I WANT to be capturing family’s lives in thick of the craziness.  I WANT to stop time for a moment – or be part of those every day moments and document them.  I WANT to do this for MY family and YOURS.

Losing my mom in 2014 has caused me to learn so much about myself, my family, priorities, navigating grief, and life in general.  I miss her every day.  I cherish the photos that I have of her and with her.  I love looking at the images from when she was my age.  My sisters and I were the same age as my kids.  Even more so, I cherish looking at photos of my mom with my kids – she was the BEST grandma.

Life is full of joy and it’s unexpected.  I have been busier than ever these past two years with photography – but I haven’t documented on social media.  So here I am “back to it” – back to sharing what I love with all of you!

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